Comments on: Forgive and Forget http://leigh-ann.co.za/2009/11/forgive-and-forget/ Thu, 17 May 2012 19:02:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Leigh http://leigh-ann.co.za/2009/11/forgive-and-forget/comment-page-1/#comment-70 Leigh Fri, 13 Nov 2009 08:35:36 +0000 http://leigh-ann.co.za/?p=226#comment-70 You are so right, believe me I have a lot to say but sometimes I think it is better to rather keep quite, don't want to end up with any regrets! You are so right, believe me I have a lot to say but sometimes I think it is better to rather keep quite, don’t want to end up with any regrets!

]]> By: Leigh http://leigh-ann.co.za/2009/11/forgive-and-forget/comment-page-1/#comment-67 Leigh Fri, 13 Nov 2009 08:30:36 +0000 http://leigh-ann.co.za/?p=226#comment-67 Oh Doline, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. It is so funny cause after I published the post I felt so much better "weird" and have decided to make an effort to forgive. I don't have to go out of my way to be nice but I can be civil. I really hope you can patch things up, especially as you live so close to one another. Oh Doline, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. It is so funny cause after I published the post I felt so much better “weird” and have decided to make an effort to forgive. I don’t have to go out of my way to be nice but I can be civil. I really hope you can patch things up, especially as you live so close to one another.

]]> By: Doline http://leigh-ann.co.za/2009/11/forgive-and-forget/comment-page-1/#comment-65 Doline Thu, 12 Nov 2009 16:03:40 +0000 http://leigh-ann.co.za/?p=226#comment-65 It's funny that I read your blog now, especially when I was in tears again the passed 2 days -compliments my mother in law... And yes, forgiving is not so hard if you can manage to forget. But THAT is the part I'm struggling with. And same as with you, for my husband's sake I probably will have to suck it up, but it's really hard. I did not deserve the treatment. But ultimately we are in charge of how we choose to react to sitiations, and therefore our thoughts. It takes the same amount of energy to be upset then being thankfull/forgiving. But yaaa. It defenately easier said then done. I do understand what you're saying, and being pregnant doesn't help! It’s funny that I read your blog now, especially when I was in tears again the passed 2 days -compliments my mother in law…
And yes, forgiving is not so hard if you can manage to forget. But THAT is the part I’m struggling with.
And same as with you, for my husband’s sake I probably will have to suck it up, but it’s really hard. I did not deserve the treatment.

But ultimately we are in charge of how we choose to react to sitiations, and therefore our thoughts. It takes the same amount of energy to be upset then being thankfull/forgiving.

But yaaa. It defenately easier said then done.

I do understand what you’re saying, and being pregnant doesn’t help!

]]> By: Girl van die Suburbs http://leigh-ann.co.za/2009/11/forgive-and-forget/comment-page-1/#comment-61 Girl van die Suburbs Thu, 12 Nov 2009 10:48:34 +0000 http://leigh-ann.co.za/?p=226#comment-61 Hey there I remember that you have read that book before and it helped you alot the first time around. We had numerous discussions... (Oh, I hope it was you? :???: ) I promise you... to forgive is the best thing. I have been through a whole cleansing binge. I reckon what makes your situation more difficult is that you still need to interact with her. I am lucky... I forgave and took the chance to walk away. You are just amazing...keep the faith and stand strong... ;) Hey there

I remember that you have read that book before and it helped you alot the first time around. We had numerous discussions… (Oh, I hope it was you? :???: )

I promise you… to forgive is the best thing. I have been through a whole cleansing binge. I reckon what makes your situation more difficult is that you still need to interact with her. I am lucky… I forgave and took the chance to walk away.

You are just amazing…keep the faith and stand strong… ;)

]]> By: Wenchy http://leigh-ann.co.za/2009/11/forgive-and-forget/comment-page-1/#comment-60 Wenchy Thu, 12 Nov 2009 10:47:53 +0000 http://leigh-ann.co.za/?p=226#comment-60 I find it especially hard to forgive when I don't feel I deserved the ugly words said/written to me. I have the tendancy to want to explain myself... and to be honest, the other person doesn't necessarily wants to LISTEN... I find it especially hard to forgive when I don’t feel I deserved the ugly words said/written to me. I have the tendancy to want to explain myself… and to be honest, the other person doesn’t necessarily wants to LISTEN…

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